Posted by: tsbradshaw on: January 7, 2012
The 12 Commandments Of A Child
1. Thou Shall Love Me Unconditionally…..
2. Thou Shall Provide Opportunities For Laughter & Play Every Day…..
3. Thou Shall Respect Me For Who I Am & Support Me In Who I Want To Become……
4. Thou Shall Spend Meaningful Time With Me & Encourage Me To Read Every Day…..
5. Thou Shall Encourage My Natural Sense Of Discovery & Appetite For Knowledge…..
6. Thou Shall NOT Abuse, Neglect, Mistreat, Or Harm Me In Any Way For Any Reason…..
7. Thou Shall Provide Me With A Trusting & Caring Learning Environment…..
8. Thou Shall Teach Me To Work & Play Collaboratively With Others…..
9. Thou Shall Encourage Me To Use My Voice & To Stay True To My Authentic Self…..
10. Thou Shall Teach Me To Love & Live Life Unconditionally…..
11. Thou Shall Teach Me To Love Myself So That I May Love Others…..
12. Thou Shall Encourage Me To Dream Big & Always Believe In Myself…..
Sincerely,
A Child
Written By: T. S. Bradshaw
Photo Courtesy of : Michael Sean & T.S. Bradshaw
Posted by: tsbradshaw on: December 21, 2011
Although the new Goodees book & audio cd, Goodees Deux: Shapes, Sizes, & Foods, won’t be available until January 2012 you get a chance to see inside the book! Because you’re so special, here are a few fun food pages from the book! We all love food and The Goodees have a few of their favorite foods, too!
Wollie the Goodee Frog loves yummy pizza. Hmmm, what do you need to make a pizza?
Did someone say yummy strawberries? Alex the Goodee Dog loves strawberries! Hmmm, are strawberries fruits or vegetables?
Yummy grapes anyone? PePe the Goodee Pig shows his polite manners in French when asking for his grapes. Hmmm, what shape are grapes?
Stuie the Goodee Bear loves yummy french fries. Hmmm, what are french fries and where do they come from?
For the answers to the above questions and more multilingual, educational, interactive fun join The Goodees on Facebook!
Have Fun And Keep Learning!
T.S. Bradshaw
Posted by: tsbradshaw on: December 12, 2011
The New Year of 2012 rings in a new Goodees book! Goodees Deux: Shape, Sizes, and Foods will be released January 2012!
Posted by: tsbradshaw on: June 21, 2011
Temper, Temper, Part I: Helpful Tips on How to Manage Meltdowns
Whether you are a parent, educator, care giver, childcare provider or all of the above there are some behavioral challenges you face when dealing with children. The particular behavioral challenge that I am writing about is better known as “The Temper Tantrum”. If you’re being faced with temper tantrums here are some strategies that may work for you.
1. Ignore the behavior (Look the other way)…. When temper tantrums arise ignoring the behavior can be an effective strategy. Children are usually looking for a reaction from the adult, but once they notice you’re not giving any reaction or attention to the negative behavior most children usually calm down… Therefore, address the child and not the negative behavior. Shortly after your child has calmed down, you should address the behavior and set guidelines…. So take note, and don’t feed the fire!
2. Provide your child some space (Time Out)…. We all become frustrated and stressed at times, for some of us this may be everyday. When these emotions occur in adults we just simply need time to calm down. Children are no exception. They also experience these emotions and may very well need some time alone with their feelings. Time outs should be used for children to think about their feelings and reflect on their behaviors. This time should also aid them in calming down…For smaller children time outs can be used to help remove them from the area in which the tantrum began, a change of scenery can do some real good (more on this later)…. So take note, and give them breathing room. You’re going to need it too.
3. Investigate your child’s frustration (Find the source of the problem) Communication is key. Talk to your child. If your child is not swinging off the curtains and walking on the ceiling you may stand a chance at finding the root of the problem sooner than later. If your child is frustrated to no end, give him or her space to calm down and then follow-up with your investigation.
Once you have discovered the source of their frustration you now have some idea of what can potentially trigger a tantrum and how to avoid or deal with a future episode. Investigating the problem also eases your child and let’s them know that you care about their feelings and emotions. Getting to the source of your child’s frustration is always a win win situation. So take note, always get to the root of the problem when you can…. So take note, when all is at stake, investigate.
4. Divert your child’s attention (Create a Diversion)…. Have you ever heard the phrase “out of sight, out of mind”? Diverting your child’s attention away from their current stressful situation with another activity, object or space helps. This tip may work better with younger children because their attention spans are shorter than older children…. So take note, when the situation goes left divert it to the right!
5. Speak Calmly (Keep calm, cool, and collected)…. Of all these strategies keeping a level head and calm attitude is the one that yields the most positive results. Staying calm during a tantrum helps you as the adult to make clear and level-headed decisions, communicate effectively, and display positive role modeling behavior…. So take note, cooler heads always prevail!
As Always, Have Fun & Keep Learning!
T.S. Bradshaw
Posted by: tsbradshaw on: April 9, 2011
Has your child’s school had “The Goodee Experience”? If not, what are you waiting on? “The Goodees” are vastly becoming a phenomenon among preschoolers. They are a wonderful way for young learners to excercise beginner skills in the areas of language arts, math, science, social studies, fine motor skills, gross motor skills, and gain practice in speaking FOUR WORLD LANGUAGES! It’s Magic and apparently alot of FUN! Look for the next Goodees book this May.
Just Ask Judy about “The Goodees”… You can see Judy’s video testimonial at www.facebook.com/pages/The-Goodees/110277164736.
Here are a list of a few educational centers that have enjoyed “The Goodee Experience”:
Kelley’s Kids – Maplewood, NJ
Early Childhood Learning Institute – Newark, NJ
Little Tykes – East Orange, NJ
Tri-City People Organization Inc. – Newark, NJ
Bobbies Babies – Newark, NJ
YCS Theraputic Nursery – East Orange, NJ
Newark Day Center – Newark, NJ
St. Anne’s Daycare – Newark, NJ
King Memorial Day Nursery – Newark, NJ
Clinton Hill Community Center – Newark, NJ
Essex County College Child Development Center – Newark, NJ
North Ward Child Development Center – Newark, NJ
Precious Little Daycare – Newark, NJ
East Orange Child Development Corporation – East Orange, NJ
Life’s Little Treasures Childcare Center - Bloomfield, NJ
Zion Kid’s Daycare Center – Newark, NJ
Precious Jewels Childcare Center – Montclair, NJ
Three Stages Daycare Center – East Orange, NJ
Smart Cookie Learning Center – East Orange, NJ
Harambee Family Academy – East Orange, NJ
Karate For Youth Child Care Center – Maplewood, NJ
Montclair Cooperative School – Montclair, NJ
Posted by: tsbradshaw on: December 4, 2010